Worthy Access Update
I’m building the foundation of this blog right now, and honestly? It’s already beautiful.
But I’m choosing patience over rushing.
I may delay the full public rollout until the 23rd of this month, because the coding, the layout, and the premium ideas I’m executing are evolving into something bigger than I originally envisioned. I don’t want “good enough.” I want ultimate—a true premium + VIP experience that feels like stepping behind the blvck velvet rope.
My current members have been genuinely pleased with the beta version so far, and that feedback matters. It tells me I’m on the right path. Now I’m preparing to refine it, elevate it, and open it properly—because when I do the grand opening, I want it to be a boom, not a whisper.
Real Life Is Moving Fast (And I’m Still Winning)
My social life—and Mr. and I—have been so busy lately that it feels like the days are flying. We only have a few more weeks before the closing on our third home is complete.
Yes. I own properties now.
Property One: West Coast (A Landlord’s Dream)
My first property is a landlord’s dream on the West Coast, and I have the best tenants in it. They love it so much they’ve offered me a very nice amount of money to buy it.
I decline—every single time.
Where this property is located? Let’s just say every big-time tech whale wants it, and that’s all I’m going to say. And no—it’s not in a popular big city.
Property Two: East Coast (Family Legacy)
My second property is on the East Coast, and a family member will be moving into it soon. It’s too much for me to manage personally right now, but it’s perfect for her: she wants more kids, it’s in a great area, and it supports her big family dreams.
She’ll be my next dream tenant—and she does very well for herself—so that income stream will be beautiful to watch.
Property Three: My Tech Landing Home
The third property will be my landing tech home—suburb-city vibes—and I can’t wait to develop this townhouse into my Findom Goddess Cave: tech, gamer, anime, luxury, and pure personal power.
It’s an older home, so I’ll be upgrading a lot. And I’m blessed enough in this phase of my life to do whatever I want with it.
I’m excited for this chapter.
Soft Life, Curves, and My Glow-Up
And let me add this—because it matters.
I’ve lost a lot of weight.
My hair care, skin care, and body care have my hair, skin, and body looking perfectly curvy-thick—the kind of polished, healthy, and expensive that can’t be faked.
This soft lifestyle has been a game changer for my blvck femininity.
And yes—my body surgeries are finally settling down. Everything is coming together the way it was meant to.
Going to Korea for next-level skin care spas and investing in the right products has been one of the best decisions I’ve made for my melanated skin and thick body. The glow is real. The maintenance is intentional. The results are undeniable.
Inside-Out Body Care (The Diet That Changed Everything)
I’m eating well too—because gut health and inside-body care matter just as much as what you can see.
Lately, I’ve been experimenting with different diets. Some hit. Some didn’t.
But I finally found the one—and let me tell you, I’m never going back.
It was hard at first, but this diet keeps me curvy, soft, and honestly… pretty as fuck.
I still consider myself a foodie—just an extreme small-bite foodie. And when I say “small bite,” I mean it literally: my stomach is basically the size of an egg.
It’s not about eating “less” like a punishment. It’s about being intentional about what I put in my body.
Right now, I’m living as an extreme small-bite foodie ketovore: 75% carnivore and 25% keto.
And it works.
I’ve managed a perfect weight with a little wiggle room to add just a tad more (curvaceous thick) in the fall and winter.
By spring and summer, I lean out into that curvy-thick look with a little more muscle in certain areas—slightly toned, still feminine, still soft.
All in all, I’m maintaining a great weight for my height and body build—season by season—on purpose.
The Empire Is Running (And I’m Focused)
Between finishing my main website/blog and building out this townhouse, I’m booked and busy in the best way.
My companies are doing so well that I’ve managed to stay ahead of the game—far beyond what most people in this online world can even comprehend.
I’ve gotten sharper with my skills, my craft, and minding my own paid business. Truthfully, I don’t even know what’s going on in the domination or BDSM world anymore—because I built my own lane.
I built my own clientele.
Between my online members area and my phone clients, I don’t have time to be distracted.
And I’m blessed—period.
Nothing and nobody is derailing this chapter.
Great online businesses. Great vanilla businesses. Great passive income businesses.
I can’t complain.
Soft Life, With a Twist
I have a pretty cool social life. Mr. stays busy too. And I have great phone and online clients who invest in me—and I reward them very well.
It’s a smooth stream of online clients and personal whales who keep me entertained consistently.
And don’t worry—behind the paywall, I’m still evolving.
I’m not stopping.
I’m still controlling.
Still humiliating.
Still laughing all the way to the bank.
The difference is: I know my place now. And I’m going to enjoy it even more.
My niche has leveled up. My fetishes and kinks have refined. Some things I dismissed because I’m simply not interested anymore.
I narrowed it down into a more entertaining, more profitable empire—while still leaving room for inspiration and new outlets that keep building the blvck findom goddess I am now.
A luxurious soft lifestyle… with that online lifestyle domina twist.
Closing Thought
I can’t believe how well it’s been going.
I’ve learned a lot.
I’ve moved on from the good, the bad, and the ugly—what this adult industry has given me, and what I’ve given it.
I run my business better now.
And retirement is a long way away, because I love my blvck findom + soft life goddess world.
Now let’s see what this next chapter brings.
And I hope to see some of you behind the blvck velvet rope—dying for my attention… and grateful when I acknowledge your presence in my life.